Category Archives: Family

09.04.15And then there were three…

At 5:15 p.m. on Tuesday, July 21, my phone rang.

“Hi, Shannon!” It was our social worker from Bethany.

My breath caught in my throat as I waved madly for my hubby to join me.

“Oh, hi!” I tried to respond casually. I could feel my heart beating a mile a minute. I glanced down, thankful to be sitting in case I passed out.

We had been waiting for THIS call ever since we had first heard about a sweet baby boy a few weeks earlier. He had been born on June 19, and though we hadn’t met him or even seen a photo, we already loved him fiercely. I had spent weeks on my knees with my guy, asking the Lord to give us this child—asking that this would be the baby He had for our family.

“How are you guys doing?” our social worker asked.

We looked at each other and just laughed. “Oh, you know…” we said.

“I know it’s been a crazy day, but it gives me great joy to tell you that the birth parents have picked you guys to parent their baby boy.”

Our jaws dropped as tears filled our eyes. Five years. Five years of waiting, praying, aching, asking, pleading with the Lord to bring us a child and here we were—huddled around my desk with my phone on speaker bawling our eyes out. And you know what? It was perfect. It was so, so right.

“So, can you guys pick him up tomorrow afternoon?”

“Yes!” we answered without hesitation.

“Great! He’s in size 1 diapers and is on such and such formula…” my hands were furiously jotting notes as the happiest tears of my life splashed onto the pages of my well-worn notebook.

We hung up, hugged each other, and cried for a solid five minutes. Then, we got down on our knees and thanked the Lord for this incredible answer to prayer.

Being rather Type A in nature, both of us quickly realized that we had a matter of hours to run a million errands, so we did what all Type A people do—we made a list.

“Target, Trader’s…where else do we need to go?” my guy asked.

I ran to our nursery, quickly taking stock of the must-haves that were missing and jotting those down. I came back into the living room where my guy already had my purse and phone charger in hand.

“We’ll call and text people between errands,” he said.

It was one of the coolest nights I’ve spent with my guy. We loaded up on baby supplies and groceries and drove thru In-N-Out for dinner—all the while reading aloud the latest excited texts from family and friends.

The next day, we drove down to our agency, shaking with anticipation. There, we met our son—our baby boy. As I held him in my arms, the world around me faded to a blur. All I could see was his sweet face. This was the child we had prayed for. This was the one the Lord knew all along would be part of our family.

We’d love to introduce him to you, too. Meet baby Crew…

Crew

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God is so good, friends. He is unendingly good. Thank you for praying with us and supporting us as we waited for our little man. It means more than you’ll know.

06.20.15SpongeBob vs. the Buffalo

If you’ve spent any amount of time with my family, you know we are quite the group of storytellers. Our idea of a good time is sitting in a circle and recounting hilarious memories from years gone by. Of course, we have our favorite tales that we retell year after year. This one definitely ranks high on that list. I jotted it down for my Dad last Father’s Day, and I thought I’d share the hilarity with y’all today. Happy Father’s Day!

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I grew up vacationing on the remote side of Catalina Island, where the buffalo really do roam free. We had had one exciting buffalo encounter the year before when a herd decided to stampede through our campsite. But it was nothing a quick dive into my tent or hop onto a nearby picnic table couldn’t solve. So, in my 9-year-old wisdom, I thought the biggest buffalo danger I could face on the island was the plethora of brown pies littered about the sandy hills.

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Lovely Avalon on the front side of Catalina Island—definitely NOT where my family camped. Picture these hills and gorgeous blue ocean with zero buildings. Oh, and with wild buffalo. Lots of buffalo.

I remember one afternoon, it was growing late; the sun’s rays inched closer to the water. We had spent the whole day swimming in Little Harbor, and I needed to visit the restroom—an ancient porta-potty located at the top of one of the trails. I let my Dad know where I was headed and took off. About halfway up the hill, I heard a loud snort. Startled, I turned to see a huge buffalo with her baby not 15 feet from the trail’s edge. I panicked and bolted back down the hill toward my Dad.

“Dad! Dad!! There’s a HUGE buffalo by the trail and I can’t go by it!!”

“Is it on the trail?” he asked.

“Well, no. But practically!!” I replied.

“Just put your towel above your head,” he said calmly. “It will think you’re bigger than you really are and leave you alone.”

I remember waiting several seconds to see if that familiar grin would spread across his face in a joking smile. But he was serious. I realized that this insane man was about to send his fourth-grader back up the hill toward the evil buffalo.

But this craziness must run in our family, because I swallowed hard, lifted my towel with trembling fingers and began to walk toward the porta-potty once more. As I neared the giant beast, I gave it all I had, stepping on my tiptoes with my soggy SpongeBob beach blanket blowing in the breeze above my head.

The buffalo snorted once. Then twice. She stomped her hoof angrily at me, lowering her head as if to charge. I took off running, yelling some barbaric cry as if to scare her away, the whole time holding my towel high until I reached the safety of the blue plastic outhouse.

I remember hanging out near that decrepit porta-potty for a little longer than necessary, hoping the giant beast would get the hint and leave. Sure enough, she did, giving me a clear path to rejoin my family at the base of the hill.

“Dad!” I cried, running up to him. “Dad, I walked by the buffalo like you said, but she almost charged at me!”

“Oh, really?” he asked, a bemused look on his face. “Well, you made it, didn’t you?”

“Barely!” I said in my best Bob Wiley* impression. “Barely!”

*Bob Wiley is a character from one of our family’s favorite films, What About Bob?, which is best watched with someone who nearly hyperventilates from laughing so hard (i.e., my Dad).

01.10.15Bacon Saturday

Friends, today I’m sharing about a sacred tradition in our home. We call it Bacon Saturday. Here’s how it works: Every Saturday morning, we set our alarms a little bit later, and rise rested with coffee happily brewing downstairs. The smell pulls us from the warmth of our bed, and we slowly ease into the day.

My guy fills a couple of mugs with our favorite French roast while I pre-heat the oven and arrange thick slices of applewood-smoked bacon on a baking sheet. As it sizzles in the oven, I cook a few eggs—fried for him, omelet-style for me. Once everything’s ready, we take our breakfast to the couch, where we slowly enjoy our bounty.

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Some mornings we watch an episode or two of a TV show on Netflix. Others, we simply sit and soak in the moment, talking about the past week and planning for the weekend ahead.

It’s a chance to connect and regroup. A chance to slow down and say no to the all-too-hurried pace of our lives, even if just for a few hours. It’s an intentional breather of sorts, and we protect it pretty fiercely.

Each week, when we add bacon to our shopping cart, we glance at each other and smile. We know that no matter how crazy the days ahead may be, Bacon Saturday is coming.

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You might be laughing at this point, thinking that just about anyone would get excited about bacon. But, as good as the bacon is (and trust me—it’s good), it isn’t about that at all.

You see, we are designed to be productive, to create, and to work. But, we are equally designed to rest. To pause and reflect. I think we often let the busyness of life drown out that need. And we can get away with doing that—for a time. But eventually, it catches up to us. No matter how much caffeine we drink, we’re just not meant to move at hyper-speed indefinitely.

I’ve gotta say, I was surprised by this tradition. We started it for the bacon, but we’ve kept it and made it a priority because we crave the rest and connection.

What holy moment do you hold onto during the week? Or maybe you haven’t been able to carve out that time to slow down. It doesn’t have to be Saturday morning and it doesn’t have to involve bacon (although, if it does, I’d recommend the applewood-smoked variety from Trader Joe’s). Find what works for you, and make it a priority. Because you, my friend, were designed for rest.